Thursday, November 12, 2026
Opening Lines, Search Committees, Big Money Losses, and Spies
Wednesday, November 11, 2026
Veterans Day 2026
Today is Veterans Day, a day to celebrate everyone who has served in the military, unlike Memorial Day, when we remember those who lost their lives during military service. Here is a picture of my favorite veteran, my dad:
He's my favorite veteran for obvious reasons, but there are many other veterans who would also be favorites: my father-in-law, an Army veteran, and my Florida pastor Keith Spencer and his wife, Piper Spencer, Navy veterans, for example. I think of one of my best friends from high school, Chum Kimsey:
The above picture is from 2014, when she had just been diagnosed with esophageal cancer, which would take her life. She served in the Army in the late 80's and early 90's.
Every so often, I hear people talk about how young people should be required to do military service. I remember all the wars which wrecked so many lives, and I don't think military service requirement is the answer to whatever problems we see in "the youth today." Spend a summer working in a VA hospital and then come tell me how military service would be a solution--and how we would afford to take care of even more injured veterans.
On November 11, I'm also thinking of Armistice Day, the end to World War I. I think it's hard for most of us to conceive of how many people died in World War I. Even when I have my students imagine all of their male classmates going off to fight and no one coming back, I think it's hard to get our heads around the total. I wish we could all go to the WWI cemeteries in France. It's a visual that's tough to capture in a picture; it does make a very different impact.
And here's the even more sobering statistic: look up how many people died in World War II. It's staggering, the kind of numbers that make me say, "Were there even that many people alive at that time?" Yes, there were that many people alive--and at the end of 4 years, they were dead.
Here's a picture of my dad, my sister, and me at the WWII Memorial during an Honor Flight event.
It was both a joyful trip and a somber one, being surrounded by living veterans, all older than 65, and the monuments to the wars that they fought. It was a sobering reminder of the ultimate cost that so many veterans pay/paid.
I am also thinking of all the quilters I know who make quilts for veterans as a way to say thank you:
I'm not at a point yet where I could do that--but this morning, I'm wishing that I could show gratitude in this way, a way that results in a beautiful quilt. For this morning, though, words will have to do.
Tuesday, November 10, 2026
Waking Up Alone in the Fixer-Upper (but All Is Well)
Monday, November 9, 2026
Amish Quilters and Mistakes Made with Abandon
One Intentional Mistake
“how for years I was taught:
fly low under the radar.”
“Only” by Luisa Igloria
Amish quilters made intentional mistakes
because only God can craft
items of perfection.
I make mistakes without precision,
scattering them across my work
with great abandon, as if to ward
off evil spirits.
Those spirits will move
on to haunt those who are too proud
of their precise stitches, their perfect
children, their houses ready to grace
the cover of glossy magazines.
I fly under the radar
of every evil spirit with my chaotic
collection of art supplies spread
out across every surface, children frolicking
in paint or mud.
But my children get their nightly baths
before being tucked into beds with bright
quilts with crooked seams. I will tell
them one last story
about the woman who abandoned
the neatness of numbered columns
for the spatter of paint and the magic
of fairy cakes in the overgrown garden.
Sunday, November 8, 2026
Fall Quilt Camp 2026
I haven't meant to be silent here on the blog; I even took my laptop to Quilt Camp yesterday, but I was so focused on my projects that I barely used it at all. By late morning on Saturday, I had finally put together the top for the Christmas quilt I'm making for my cousin's oldest child who is graduating from high school in the spring, the one who loves all things Christmas.
On Friday, I finished the quilt for the king size bed. It was mostly done, but I needed to close up all the edges.
I love that the quilt has so many scraps from fellow quilters, and a bit from some of my grandmother's fabric that was left when she made clothes for me. When I presented it at Show and Tell, I thought people might tell me scraps they recognized, but they did not.
I opened the Faith Center every morning and led a small group on a walk each afternoon. Along with all the sewing I get done, I love the chance to reconnect with friends.
We had perfect autumnal days, after the heavy rains passed through on Wednesday. I am keenly aware of the fact that we won't have this weather and autumnal views much longer, so I pushed myself to get out and walk.
I don't have a picture of one of the most fun parts of this year's Quilt Camp. One of the retreatants has a small general store, and she brought mystery bundles, 2 pounds of scraps (mainly long lengths) of quality fabric, fabric pre-packaged from a distant manufacturer. After evening show and tell on Thursday, the quilter next to me bought one, and we watched her unpack it. The quality and variety and amount impressed us,--all that fabric for $15! The surrounding quilters each bought one, including me. We took turns unpacking each bundle, with many oohs and ahs, and then we spent time trading. I was late to bed that night.
Thursday, November 5, 2026
Quilt Camp as Metaphor for Political Hope
Wednesday, November 4, 2026
A Historic Election Day
It is the morning after a historic election day with not much time to write. Here's the Facebook post I made just after midnight: I fell asleep early-ish for an election night (by 9 p.m.), early-ish for most grown ups on any night, and scrolling through results at midnight, I'm struck by how many of the winners are women, particularly in races for governor. It's going to be a record breaking election day for all sorts of reasons, but women winners give me so much hope!






